I want them to get excited about learning, and being safe
Knowing how intense and particular this lifestyle can get, there really needs to be something in place to protect us newbies, not just forums. Personally I think that Fetlife should implement badges that each new member gets when they first sign up for Fetlife. A decent size test will determine what badge they receive, and that badge will display on their profile. Those badges will help others know who is new, experienced, a mentor etc. And Fetlife could take it a step further and color code them or whatever but this example is my hope. I want newbies to be and feel encouraged to do their homework. Otherwise, we’re just being allowed to be careless. Brittany Simon, a BDSM YouTuber and masochist told viewers in fellow BDSM YouTuber Evie Lupine’s video Common Newbie Misconceptions About BDSM that during a scene she was in – a guy walked into the scene and complimented her breasts. This is allegedly a very common issue in BDSM regarding newbies (i.e not knowing the most basic “Does and https://hookupdate.net/escort-index/clovis/ Dont’s”) and these careless actions will tell everyone in the room one of two things. You’re either a disrespectful asshole, or an ignorant and incompetent newbie. Either way, expect to be immediately confronted by the Dom in the scene or any bystander!