I can nearly guarantee you’re not as discreet and sneaky if you are you can’t be sure that he is as you think you are, and even. Kids recognise small things, or any other people get in it and ask/tell the kids about any of it, and simply ick.
Kids are not fundamentally likely to comprehend and become okay with poly when they do find something away, and also the likely thing which will take place is that they/others will think you will be having an illicit event as opposed to playing an “arrangement. “
Addititionally there is the possibility that when other people in your neighborhood learn you will be resting using this dude, they will be shitty to your children about any of it. Continue reading “My parents were swingers. As a kid who lived through the complete “my parents are banging the next-door next-door neighbors and parents of my friends” thing, i’d vote that you do not do this in your straight back yard.”