A Newbie’s Help Guide To BDSM, With Recommendations From The Intercourse Therapist

A Newbie’s Help Guide To BDSM, With Recommendations From The Intercourse Therapist

Who, btw, states it is the best sort of intercourse you could have.

Few things in life are since misunderstood as BDSM. The intercourse training gets a negative rap as the one that’s physically or mentally harmful, the one that just survivors of punishment embrace, and one that is abnormally kinky. But it is actually none of these things.

At its simplest, BDSM can be an umbrella term for three groups: bondage and control, dominance and distribution, and sadism and masochism (more information on those who work in a full minute). They could each sound frightening in their very own right, but you can have, says Holly Richmond, PhD, a somatic psychologist and certified sex therapist because they rely on a judgement-free zone where communication about your desires and boundaries come first, BDSM can actually be the safest (and most fun) kind of sex.

“So much of our life is managed, therefore for many individuals, it is good to be let down the hook,” Richmond describes. Continue reading “A Newbie’s Help Guide To BDSM, With Recommendations From The Intercourse Therapist”