With over 60 million members, X-rated pictures, live chats, and much more, Adult Friend Finder is the favorite choice for anyone looking to find casual sex partners or romantic relationships. This hookup site is easily one of, if not the most popular and well-respected names in online hookup culture and is filled to the brim with sexually confident members who very evidently are there for the same reason you are. Oh, and it has an app, too!
Passion
If lingerie and suggestive poses do it for you, look no further. As a hookup site, Passion still contains more nudity and sexually-explicit live cams than your average dating site, but steps it up a few notches to do so in a classy manner. Think Instagram models gone x-rated, seeking out hookup partners in a smokey-eyed sultry, behind-the-scenes fashion.
FriendFinder-X
FriendFinder-X puts a bit more of a playful spin on what you’d expect from a traditional hookup site. Instead of pure nudity, you get a bit of humor along with the skin – not to mention what’s likely the most diverse collection of members out there. The site is genuinely uplifting, and sports a refreshingly fun-loving, down-to-earth vibe. Members of FFX are clearly there to enjoy themselves, without emotions getting in the way, and you really feel like an equal the moment you log on. If you’re in need of something completely drama-free, this is the place to start.
Get It On
To browse sexual classifieds in a safe, spam-free environment in search of that elusive one-night stand, head straight over to GetItON. The hookup site bypasses the Facebook-style social network layout you’ll find on many competing sites and instead focuses on actually matching you with other casual sex seekers. GetItON lets you easily showcase your preferences, from lifestyle to sexuality, in a controlled, transparent manner. And in case you’re a little uncertain of what you want, the sexual preferences are gathered via a short survey that allows you to rank sexual activities on a scale ranging from hard no’s to must-haves.
NoStringsAttached
No Strings Attached prioritizes your privacy allowing you to keep your casual sex life as discreet and private as you wish. Members can create and fully utilize anonymous profiles, to ensure identities are kept secret, and can even go as far as to communicate privately over the phone without disclosing phone number using the PrivateCalls feature. The site is designed for those who are interested in hooking up online and want to (or need to) fly completely under the radar. Likewise, No Strings Attached attracts both those who are single and currently in relationships but looking to, ahem, shop around.
3. Get Chatting
If you find communicating online the hardest part, there’s a chance you might be overthinking it. Seeing as you’re seeking an arrangement that is attachment-free, you should try not to get too wound up about the outcome of your chats, emails, winks, etc. If sexual activity happens, it happens, and if it doesn’t, keep it moving and try things out with someone else.
Dating websites’ winks are flirty, but they just extend the length of the online communication stage and should be used only if you don’t have time to send a quick message. For the best results, try sending an opening message that’s between two and three sentences in length – that’s a sort of magic number that gives the recipient something to respond to without being over-long.
Then, most importantly, once you’re feeling a good 
vibe, transition the conversation off the website or app as soon as possible by offering or asking for a phone number. This shows that you’re serious about this interaction enough to take it past just the initial conversation, and it represents an opportunity to hype things up to more suggestive, flirty lines.