In the real world, women are not turned on by shy, spirituelle Dating-Seiten awkward behavior and they do not feel sexually attracted to guys who lack confidence in themselves.
To be successful with women, a guy needs to drop the “shy guy” act and be the confident that women are desperately looking for.
Yes, it is true that some women are picky and will only accept a guy who looks like a male model and has loads of money.
Watch this video to see the types of guys that women are willing to have sex with and even marry…
As you will discover from the video above, many guys make up all sorts of excuses about why they aren’t successful at picking up the women they meet.
However, the real reason they fail is that they simply don’t know how to trigger a woman’s feelings of attraction during an interaction and are instead hoping to be liked for being nice, dressing well or looking good.
Some guys make the mistake of thinking that one of the best ways to meet women is to make themselves look like a body builder or like a well-dressed male model.
Based on this strategy, a guy will spend thousands of hours in a gym or will spend endless money dressing himself up in the latest designer gear, wear the “best” colognes and style his hair “perfectly,” but he still won’t get laid.
Even though you will hear women say, “Oh! He’s good-looking” or “Oooh, he’s hot” it doesn’t mean that success with women is all about looks.
Most guys that you have seen with a beautiful girlfriend or wife have been average-looking, below-average looking and even UGLY. They have been bald, short, fat, skinny, poor and unfashionable. Yet, they have a hot girlfriend or wife.
Yes, looks can help guy a guy attention from women (and some women will have sex with him simply because he’s handsome), but that doesn’t mean that a guy who isn’t good looking can’t get laid, get a girlfriend or get married to a hot women
You know the answer already: It’s not about looks for most women. Most women are just looking for a man who makes them feel girly because he is so confident and masculine and who makes them laugh because he has a good enough level of social intelligence to ensure that he can survive, thrive and prosper in this world.
It doesn’t matter if you spend thousands on buying the latest designer clothes, none of that will help you meet women if you lack the confidence and conversation skills to pull off the pick up.
A woman might say, “Oooh, you have great fashion sense” or “Oh, I like you shirt!” but that doesn’t mean you need to be a pretty boy for women.
She is just saying that to you because it looks good. Instinctively, she knows that a man’s clothes do not mean he will be able to survive, thrive and prosper in the world. It may look nice, but it’s superficial and she knows it.
However, that doesn’t mean she wants to have sex with you
Of course, there’s nothing wrong with a guy presenting himself well by wearing good clothes, but a guy’s outward appearance won’t hold a woman’s interest for long if he’s unable to make her feel attraction and respect for him as a man.
Contrary to the message put across by all the marketing hype in magazines, on TV and on billboards, most women are not completely focused on how a man looks. Instead, most women (not all) are more interested in who the man is on the inside, rather than what he represents on the outside.