I do not understand just what do to any longer. Sorry this will soon be kinda long.
I knew if she ever came ultimately back in their life I would personally lose him. He had been delivering texts that are 50-75 a time and online with her etc. carried their phone every-where with him, also to sleep (that was perhaps not normal) before long, we knew he wished to be along with her. (i am aware we ought to not need done this but i did so) we told him if he really wants to be together with her to go with it, i am going to move apart if it’ll make him pleased. He stated “no I would like to be with you, and she most likely does not consider me personally in that way, besides I’m hitched” we told him “well it is possible to inform her we are divided to see where is goes.” That killed us to accomplish, but all we have ever desired would be to make him pleased, we demonstrably do not make him pleased, possibly she could. We figured if she will make him pleased in which he wanted her so will move apart when it comes to 2 of these. Well after about 30 days or more, we asked that which was taking place together with them, he claims simply buddies she does not see me personally virtually any method. We stated “fine well I do not like to move you to select but i can not real life this any longer, you need to actually choose”. Therefore now we are supposed to be getting our marriage on track after we have had this talk. He just talks and texts and/or online her whenever I’m wasn’t around. Often simply did not appear appropriate. I inquired him to venture out one night make plans per week ahead of time, absolutely absolutely nothing big supper and a film or club, simply us (we seldom do just about anything devoid of the children in which he seldom just just take me down simply us). And so the evening come we go with dinner, he truly doesn’t state much for me, it had been extremely uncomfortable, after supper we had been planning to head to a club, but decided to go to see a film that has been pretty much to begin, when I thought I would go to the club, rather he began walking into the automobile, he took me personally house by 9 pm, he wished to go back home so he could get online. And so I began viewing texting (he deleted many of them before i possibly could read them), we began viewing immediate message convos and found he previously a couple of girlfriends, giving nude pic forward and backward, he had been telling her the lies he constructed to inform me etc . I sat him down and had another civil convo with him and said “this needs to end, it’s either me personally or even the girlfriends” this convo lasted about 6 hrs. him telling me personally he really really loves me personally, they suggest absolutely nothing to him, etc etc etc. he told 1 g/f over she didn’t take it very well, and told 2 others that it was over thru text messages online it was. The only I told you about at the beginning did not go on it well after all, ended up being really mad, calling and swearing me personally names and him too, he stated absolutely absolutely nothing simply begged her forgiveness. Their reason had been, well she’s mad, she’s got dilemmas, i did not wish to harm her. He has got never cared climate he hurt me personally. okay anyways. all should now be over back again to me personally wedding right? NO!! 2-3 weeks later on, He deleted her off his she them in change delivered him an email once again aggravated calling me personally title and him too swearing at him, last but not least states i would like nothing at all 
to do with you. Two to three weeks later on, he continues on up to buddy of hers and their web web page and it is once more begging her for forgiveness and telling her and also at minimum 400+ of associates that i will be delusional, and a mind instance. He told the G/F’s that my meds are not working, he doesn’t understand what my issue is, i am mind case, in which he is attempting to straighten things down so they can carry on using them. We seriously do not know the length of time he previously many of these g/f’s.